Tuesday, November 3, 2009

RIP Ian Fredericks

It is with huge sadness that we announce the death today, November 4, of the founder of Friends of Mindanao at the age of 63.

Ian was a great friend, and he will be missed so much by Bing and his children, and his friends throughout the Philippines and around the world.


Please leave your condolences in the comments section and they will appear within a few hours. You can also send them to
jgrant8165@yahoo.co.uk.

Goodbye, my friend.



Ollie Mcgovern
Ollie Mcgovern
so sorry to here about ian's sudden passing. god bless him and his family. r.i.p ian.
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Although I don't know Ian my prayers are with him. May his soul rest in peace in Heaven.
James


From Geoff Cole

Past members of New Zealand Jaycee and Senators of JCI will be shocked and saddened at the untimely passing of Ian. Back in 1978 I had the pleasure of serving with Ian as a Regional Governor of NZ Jaycee. The next year we cemented that friendship with Ian taking a Programme Manager's role with a programme that was to change his life: Personal Potential. Ian was awarded a Senatorship (#26210)- life membership to JCI for his outstanding contribution to society.
We had many great times and Ian's infectious enthusiasm and broad smile will be fondly remembered. Cheerio my friend.
Geoff Cole
President NZ Jaycee 1982,Life Member #7 and Senator #26096)

November 6, 2009 10:59 AM

Anonymous edward stanway said...

farewell,Ian just as we where becoming good friends you departed this world,you will always be remembered as a humanitarian,and a great ambassador for your country,you had an impact on everyone,who met you,my thoughts go out to your family,rest in peace.


Klaus Doring said...

I really got shocked when I received the message about Ian's death. Only a week ago we had a funny and personal chat.

I will miss you very much my friend. good bye!


From Ted Padova

I've been in Manila the week of Nov 2 and learned of the sad news of the passing of friend, colleague, and business associate Ian Fredericks. I'm still in shock coming to grips with the loss of a dear friend to many people throughout Davao City and other areas of Mindanao.


Ian was a champion for self improvement and shared his knowledge and beliefs regarding the power of the inner-self to so many people. I'm quite certain there are many who believe that knowing Ian was an inspiration and significant impact on their lives.


Ian will be missed by his family, friends, and so many acquaintances.


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From Paul Fuller

During the the journey through life we each meet a lot of people and most leave wonderful memories of things done and things spoken. Ian Fredricks was among the really good people I have met during my journey. We first met at a private function in another expats house and as soon as Ian spotted me standing in a corner (I'm really a shy type) he came over and introduced himself and took me to meet some other folk. Soon I was part of the party, no longer shy and at ease with Ian as a fellow New Zealander. Ian went on to establish the Friends of Mindanao Group and through his personal moral behavior, charisma and positive attitude attracted other like minded people to attend group meetings. His passing is indeed sad and I for one am deeply moved. My deepest sympathy goes out to Ian's wife Bing and to the apple of his eye, his young son Josh. We must also remember his grown up son and daughter in New Zealand and I offer them my sincere condolences. Ian told me many times how much he loved and missed his kids back in NZ. I believe that if there is a place we go to after death Ian will certainly be a worthy candidate for a place in the front row. Ian, Po atarau E moea iho nei. Farewell my friend. Paul Fuller

From Al Kipple

I can not say that I know Ian, but I know of him and his contributions to this expatriate community in which we live. Speaking for myself and for Davao Philippines Expatriate Group we are sorry to know of his death. Goodbye Ian.

From Tim Walker

When I first came to Davao City I knew little to noone here. On my second time here I came to stay for many months and I was invited to a party at Chico's to attend a Christmas party there for the one expat's club. When I sat down I sat next to Ian Fredericks and became entranced in a 1+ hour conversation with him. Along the way here I became involved with blog creations with Ian and John both and came to know them very well. In the past several months I spent many times with Ian and his power and mind set amazed me each time we spoke, talked or just had a cup of coffee at G-mall. I am without words to express the loss of Ian Fredericks. For anyone who knew him and for anyone that just chatted with him, they too will feel this loss within themselves. I have been fortunate to travel in many countries in my lifetime and personally never found anyone like Ian before and I'm afraid I may never find again. I will also never forget who taught me the saying "Ba Hala Ka" my friend and now more then ever I find it a haunting line to think you may have been trying to tell me something further? What a strange twist of fate that I was coming to see you tonight and now my words are only silenced by your passing away from this world. I for one will truely miss you and miss your passion which you tried to instill in all of us here.



Migs Bassig
Migs Bassig
We'll remember Ian as a good man. In the meantime, keep strong.
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Henry Stewart
Henry Stewart
My prayers go out to the family.
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Ben Borja
Ben Borja
Oh my God, I just texted him the other day. Thanks for the information John. I feel sad. so sad.
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Feyma Bayoy Martin
Feyma Bayoy Martin
Sorry to hear about the death of Ian John. I know that its really hard on you. My prayers are for you and his family.

Take care!
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Carolynn Christodoulou
Carolynn Christodoulou
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It is hard loosing a friend. have a hug.
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Juna Fabello
Juna Fabello
Thanks for the information John.We keep him in our memories. My prayers to the family.
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John Grant
John Grant
By error this posting has appeared many times, however I thank everyone for their thoughts. I have just met Ian's son at the airport and he has a 3 hour drive to Kidapawan, thanks to Mike,Ed and Tim for taking him.
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Adrie Cornelissen
Adrie Cornelissen
I am sorry to hear about this big loss John. It`s always hard to loose a good friend and also to be part of the grieve of his family. My prayers go out to you and his family. Hang in there buddy!!
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Stephen King
Stephen King
God Bless Ian and the family he has left behind. I miss him so much and I send my prayers.
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Nene Urbiztondo Dimmick
Nene Urbiztondo Dimmick
my prayers to his family and to those whose lives he touched in one way or another..may Ian's soul rest in peace..
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Amanda Grant
Amanda Grant
Oh john, how sad, sending love and hugs xx
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John Grant
John Grant
I will be travelling to Matalam today and will be back tomorrow, so for all those people needing to know details of the funeral please be patient I will report back tomorrow as there is no internet in Matalam
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Liz Newport
Liz Newport
Pls. give our deepest sympathy and condolences to Ian's family, we truly missing him and always remain in our hearts
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Novie Godmalin: John pls send my condolences to ian's family and relatives..
it was so sudden and im still shocked by what had happened..
its so hard to face the truth that hes gone..
may he rest in peace..


Itang P. Aranas
John ,It's hard to lose a friend forever.. I will surely miss him .. I am really sad.. May his soul rest in peace.. take care John..


Amanda Grant
Oh john, how sad, sending love and hugs xx

Ian in action in this video below










Sunday, November 1, 2009

Ian Fredericks



I have been imformed by Bing that Ian was rushed to hospital this weekend after suffering acute stomach pains.

He was operated on this Sunday and is now in a very poorly state in hospital in Kidapawan hospital.

Our love goes out to him and his family at this time, and our meeting this Wednesday will CONTINUE as normal at 9am.

We will be discussing what FOM can do to assit Ian and his family, and the Thanksgiving meal along with our Christmas plans.

Lets keep this going fit and strong until Ian can take the reigns again.

Again we send our love and prayers at this time.

Saturday, October 31, 2009

Klaus in Mati


When in Mati, a visit of Waniban Island is a must. It's just a 15-minute boat ride from Cinco Masao Resort in Mati. This 40-hectare island is surrounded by white sandy beaches and is home of local tribes who make a living through hunting and fishing.




For the full article go to the link below and click.

Article by Klaus Doring from Davao

Monday, October 26, 2009

Friends of Mindanao Newsflash

> Social Hour
> Clothes for the flood victims
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Here’s is a Quickie
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Friends of Mindanao Newsflash
:::> Social Hour
Each 2n4 and 4th Wednesday we are holding a social hour commencing at 7:00pm.
The next one is this week on this Wednesday the 28th at 8610 in Tionko Street. This is by the Central Bank.
It is informal. Nothing specially organized. Just a time to meet and socialize with foreigners.


Last week we had 12 people there to farewell Paul J. It was a splendid time.
:::> Flood Victims clothing
This is the last call for clothing for the flood victims in Manila. Vienna is going to bundle them up and ship them to Manila free of charge for us..
:::> Next meeting
Next meeting is on November 4th at the new venue listed below.
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New Venue
La Priscane Restaurant is off Veloso’s Street,
which goes from behind Victoria Plaza through to
Dacudao Street.
Halfway along Veloso’s Street is the entrance to Palm Village. Enter into Palm Village. 25 meters along, the road divides into a Y. Take the left fork in the road, 50 meters along, on the Right hand side, is the entrance to the restaurant.
There is plenty of parking.
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Friends and Spouses are most welcome at our coffee and chat meetings. We would be thrilled for you to bring a guest along. Make it this week.

Friends of Mindanao meet every 1st & 3rd Wednesday

Great times
Wishing you a better than good day
Ian Fredericks
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Sunday, October 25, 2009

Friends of Mindanao






Some more pictures of our trip to the Castle of Tansley

Friday, October 23, 2009

Sites from our last meeting

Thursday, October 22, 2009

Antiques

Christmas in Davao


Bruce Linder has a great article on his website about Christmas here.

If you are not in the Philippines, you will ask what I am talking about. It is only early October and in America you are just starting to plan for Halloween. Then there comes Thanksgiving and then finally Christmas.



In the Philippines September starts the Ber season. That is because the all the month’s end in Ber and that is what marks the coming Holiday season of Christmas. The stores are already displaying and selling Christmas decorations and you will hear the holiday music.

Soon the houses will be lit up with Christmas lights, Christmas trees will be set up and their decorations will be everywhere. But this is not the only signs of the upcoming holiday season.

Full article

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Do you complicate your goals?



There are several books that have come out in the last year all saying the same thing; most of us complicate our process of setting goals. In the book “How come that idiots rich and I am not”, the author highlights how he complicated his goal setting process by having too many goals and therefore slowing down the opportunity to achieve the major desires in life.

The biggest individual asset we all have is our talents. Yet few of us use these in a meaningful way that could enable us to be more valuable in the market place.

So how can we change this?

The first thing to do is to decide on just one major goal that is exciting and motivational to you. Along side this goal, set two secondary goals that are really meaningful, but may not be so exciting just now.

For the major goal you would work on doing one thing to move towards the accomplishment of the goal every day. This becomes your focus. It may be just obtaining information, or it could be a significant action step, but the secret is to work on one goal and to undertake an action step each day. By focusing on one goal you build more success indicators in the mind. You are achieving the goal at a quicker pace.

To ensure that you keep life in focus we recommend that you establish 10 values that are dear to you. Write down these 10 values. These could be things like integrity, family, honesty, health, God, and so on. Then put the amount of time that you spend each week working on each value. Once this is complete ask yourself, “Are your values in alignment”?

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Monday, October 19, 2009

Wednesday Oct 21



We have a new venue. On Wednesday there is an interesting speaker who coached world champions. Hear about some stunning plans for the next social event in November

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Friends of Mindanao

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In this issue

> Speaker for Wednesday Oct 21

> Flood Victims Appeal

> News Update

> Xmas Project

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Friends of Mindanao

Connecting like minded people in Mindanao

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> Meeting on Wednesday Oct 21st

It is not every day you hear from a coach of 2 world champions. John Weckler has been a professional swimming coach. In recent times his efforts have been on developing good health for the older person. Got be good news for all of us.

> New Venue

This week we are at the same venue we transferred to at the last meeting. Coffee Shop #51 is now closed. The large crowd that was there at the last meeting thoroughly enjoyed the atmosphere. You can stay on for lunch or have breakfast if you wish. Address is below

>. Flood Victims Appeal

Tim Walker is doing a brilliant job in collecting clothes for the flood victims in Luzon. You can bring used clothing along to Wednesday’s meeting. If you don’t have clothing and want to contribute, toothpaste, soap, household cleaning ingredients are in large demand. Many thanks.

> News

We received an email from Chris K who is back in Hawaii for an operation on his cancerous throat. He is in chemo now. Chris is in good spirits and sends his best wishes to all. John G is back from the UK.

> Things to look out for?

* Regular monthly fishing trip

* 2nd & 4th Wednesday’s happy drink

* An amazing thanksgiving dinner

* Look out for the raffle.

Last weeks pot was over p 300.00


> Xmas Project

This week we will have a discussion on three options to give the underprivileged in Davao a Xmas wish.

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Note! New Venue;

La Priscane Restaurant is off Veloso’s Street, which goes from behind Victoria Plaza through to Dacudao Street.

Halfway along Veloso’s Street, is the entrance to Palm Village. Enter into Palm Village. 25 meters along the road divides into a Y. Take the left fork in the road, 50 meters along, on the right hand side, is the entrance to the restaurant. There is plenty of parking. 9: 00 am start. Dress is casual.

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Friends and Spouses are most welcome at our coffee and chat meetings. We would be thrilled for you to bring a guest along. Make it this week.

We start at 9:00 am through to 11:00 am

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Go to our E-Magazine. View the photos of recent events and the details of our previous newsletters.

http://friendsofmindanao.blogspot.com

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Friends of Mindanao meet every 1st & 3rd Wednesday


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Great times
Wishing you a better than good day
Ian Fredericks
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